Graham’s Meme… Again

A couple of days ago, Indy posted this meme, which she got from Graham, and I thought it was quite interesting.  So, with no further ado, I present my version thereof:

1. Tell us your Kinsey rating! (That is, where you fall, approximately, on the spectrum of sexuality, with zero being “only attracted to members of the opposite sex” and six being “only attracted to members of the same sex.” Follow the link for the full breakdown.)

I would say across the entire spectrum I am a solid 4.  On the vanilla side of the spectrum, I am a 5… 100% attracted to and unconditionally in Love with Linda… but beyond the confines of the sanctity of our Marriage, I am strongly attracted to Men.  On the spanking/BDSM/kink side of the spectrum I am a definite 3… I am absolutely equally attracted physically and mentally to both men and women as a Top or bottom.

2. Spanking / BDSM  ”type” that suits you best (switch, top, masochist, grand-master-wizard, etc.):

I have to say I am a switch by definition,  but in reality Im a sub/bottom with masochist tendencies who is attracted to the human bare bottom enough to enjoy Topping.  I do get incredibly aroused when I have a wiggling spankee with an attractive bottom over my lap, or bent over for a proper caning or paddling… but equally as much or moreso when I am being spanked or whipped and having my limits tested.

3. Favorite blog / site of the moment (kinky/spanking-themed):

There are quite a few I have recently been introduced to that I enjoy greatly, enough so that I cannot choose one particular favorite.  I will say that my favorites are all intertwined in my Blogroll.

4. Favorite non-kinky blog / site of the moment:

Being that I am a coaster geek, I will have to say the Forum section of www.kicentral.com.  The individuals that post can tend to get a little (ok VERY) annoying due to their age, but its a valuable source of information.

5. Latest spanking fantasy floating in your head:

A very interesting one that I intend on playing out later this afternoon/evening (details to follow).

6. Blogger you’d like to spank / be spanked by:

As far as blogger Id like to spank… a VERY difficult choice between Amber “pixie” Wells, an incredibly attractive and sweet young lady I have been virtually lusting after for years, and Pandora Blake, who has one of the most gorgeous round bottoms ever to grace the feminine form.  As far as being spanked, given my relatively limited exposure to Tops that are also bloggers, I will give this to Miranda, because She has been described by a close and highly trusted Friend as a wonderful Lady.

7. Age when you lost your (consensual, adult) spanking virginity — if this has yet to happen, give us a prediction or goal!

26.  It was with the first person I had a r/l spanking relationship with. who was a switch, and though the first one was slightly awkward (arent they all), we ended up playing 4 times that first night… including being awakened at 4am with an insatiable need for one more!

8. Favorite literary reference (excluding spanking stories!):

I will defer this to a later time when I am more clear-headed and can properly recall.

9. Strangest limit:

Nipple play.  The reason I categorize this as strange is because I get tremendously aroused by having my back flogged/moderately whipped, and my penis smacked with a rubber spatula or moderately tortured in other delicious ways.  Being that those parts of the body are typically at least equally, if not MORE sensitive than the nipple, I find nipple play irritating at best, leaning more towards painful in a bad way.

10. Some Random Vanilla Trivia, in the grand tradition of memehood… Like, “what are you listening to right now,” or “what’s your favorite fruit,” or anything similarly banal.

Despite my outward appearance of emotionless strength, I am deeply sensitive to how my Friends and Family view me.  I have spent a number of days and nights in my Life contemplating, sometimes to the point of tears, my role and importance in the lives of those I truly care about.  Even as I am writing this, my mind is moving in countless directions, looking for ways to be a better Friend, Husband, Stepfather, and contributor to those close and dear to me.